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nah man.. just don't reactSultan Ahmed IV wrote:So I should welcome her with open arms?
Sultan Ahmed IV wrote:Only my future-wife can be my girl friend, my best friend actually. >.<
Could any Muslims here confirm what I am saying?
Master Steve wrote:im not talking about having a girl friend, there is a difference between that and having a friend.
but being nice to people implies you dont know them much, or your only giving this politeness, friendship is a mutually beneficial relationship where 2 or more people enjoy the company of each other.
girl/boy friends are more than that still, yes its a mutually beneficial relationship still (you hope so anyway) but theres also high levels of intimacy and love.
you can have friends without loving them like that, think of your boy friends ahmed.
From what I have been reading, from what parents have been telling me, and from what has been confirmed in discussions with many young Muslim brothers and sisters from countries all across the world it has become clear that more and more young Muslims are not following the guidelines for relationships between boys and girls so clearly set out in Islam. What Islam says is right is easy to remember because we are told that before marriage there is to be virtually no contact at all between males and females. In today’s world, while still a minority, an increasing number of young Muslims are having relationships with members of the opposite sex that are clearly outside the limits set by Islam. These relationships beyond the limits of Islam range from seemingly innocent friendships, to boyfriend-girlfriend relationships, all the way to the complete sexual relationship that has been made right by Allah only for those who are married to each other.
Do you think Allah has said there should be virtually no relationship at all between unmarried males and females because He doesn’t want you to have fun? No, Allah has set the rules for right relationships between males and females because He knows for sure what is best for you as an individual and what is best for His Ummah. Allah wants you to have a good time and enjoy the wonderful pleasures of male-female relationships, including the sexual relationship, but He knows you can only experience the greatest joy, and suffer no harm, if you keep your relationships, particularly the sexual relationship, within the necessary guidelines of the right way of life He has given us.
Sayf wrote:Master Steve wrote:im not talking about having a girl friend, there is a difference between that and having a friend.
but being nice to people implies you dont know them much, or your only giving this politeness, friendship is a mutually beneficial relationship where 2 or more people enjoy the company of each other.
girl/boy friends are more than that still, yes its a mutually beneficial relationship still (you hope so anyway) but theres also high levels of intimacy and love.
you can have friends without loving them like that, think of your boy friends ahmed.
complete garbage ... such relationships always lead to unlawful interactions ...
Sultan Ahmed IV wrote:Yes, Also:
From what I have been reading, from what parents have been telling me, and from what has been confirmed in discussions with many young Muslim brothers and sisters from countries all across the world it has become clear that more and more young Muslims are not following the guidelines for relationships between boys and girls so clearly set out in Islam. What Islam says is right is easy to remember because we are told that before marriage there is to be virtually no contact at all between males and females. In today’s world, while still a minority, an increasing number of young Muslims are having relationships with members of the opposite sex that are clearly outside the limits set by Islam. These relationships beyond the limits of Islam range from seemingly innocent friendships, to boyfriend-girlfriend relationships, all the way to the complete sexual relationship that has been made right by Allah only for those who are married to each other.
Do you think Allah has said there should be virtually no relationship at all between unmarried males and females because He doesn’t want you to have fun? No, Allah has set the rules for right relationships between males and females because He knows for sure what is best for you as an individual and what is best for His Ummah. Allah wants you to have a good time and enjoy the wonderful pleasures of male-female relationships, including the sexual relationship, but He knows you can only experience the greatest joy, and suffer no harm, if you keep your relationships, particularly the sexual relationship, within the necessary guidelines of the right way of life He has given us.
http://caliph.wordpress.com/articles/boy-girl/
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The devil is strong Flame...I just give my advice to end those relations
Also, she doens't like me, she has a "BF". She is annoying me.
yeah the "in love" part of the relationship also usually leads to divorce as well
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