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Let me put the story in a nutshell.
Girl- friends for 3 years
Asked out, said yes.
1st week was great, held hands and cuddled. She didn't like public affection so I lived with that. Can't say I enjoy it much either.
Dated for three weeks, then when I'm trying to solve a problem with ehr not intiiating anything, she finally tells me why she's been avoiding me since week 2-3. She apparently does not have the time and did not want to go out with me in the first place. Crap excuse.
Okay so I am extremelly pissed and we argue for several weeks over aim because she feels uncomfortable talking to me in person. I'm pissed because I got led on, and I've never had a relationship before, and I only got a taste. I was not a bad BF, I honestly couldn't of been a better BF.
She thinks she did nothing wrong, socially inept *****.
Right now we don't talk in real life. We smile at each other in the hallways but I do it just to keep the peace, since she refuses to discuss the matter.
The only thing she said to me today was...."hahaha", laughing at a joke a friend said about me, all in good fun but do you call that friendship if she doesn't even say hello?
She is an extremelly shy girl, but to the extent that she cannot communicate.....
I personaly think that she is in denial that she likes me.
I asked if she ever imagined holding my hand again. It was her first relationship too.
Now, a sane person who calls their BF "perfect" would I don't know, think about them a little?
She responded with "Honestly, I don't really think about it". Honestly I think that's a lie, as I have said, we have only spoken on aim. I cannot see her face and see if she's pulling my leg yet again.
The problem with her liking me now. She can't ask me out, because she ended it on cold grounds. This makes her not want to discuss it and deny anything to do with liking me. She doesn't want to show her feelings like a normal person and avoids talking to me or making any kind of contact. If I ask to hang out and she doesn't know if she's available she NEVER will get back to me.
What do you all think about this?
Girl- friends for 3 years
Asked out, said yes.
1st week was great, held hands and cuddled. She didn't like public affection so I lived with that. Can't say I enjoy it much either.
Dated for three weeks, then when I'm trying to solve a problem with ehr not intiiating anything, she finally tells me why she's been avoiding me since week 2-3. She apparently does not have the time and did not want to go out with me in the first place. Crap excuse.
Okay so I am extremelly pissed and we argue for several weeks over aim because she feels uncomfortable talking to me in person. I'm pissed because I got led on, and I've never had a relationship before, and I only got a taste. I was not a bad BF, I honestly couldn't of been a better BF.
She thinks she did nothing wrong, socially inept *****.
Right now we don't talk in real life. We smile at each other in the hallways but I do it just to keep the peace, since she refuses to discuss the matter.
The only thing she said to me today was...."hahaha", laughing at a joke a friend said about me, all in good fun but do you call that friendship if she doesn't even say hello?
She is an extremelly shy girl, but to the extent that she cannot communicate.....
I personaly think that she is in denial that she likes me.
I asked if she ever imagined holding my hand again. It was her first relationship too.
Now, a sane person who calls their BF "perfect" would I don't know, think about them a little?
She responded with "Honestly, I don't really think about it". Honestly I think that's a lie, as I have said, we have only spoken on aim. I cannot see her face and see if she's pulling my leg yet again.
The problem with her liking me now. She can't ask me out, because she ended it on cold grounds. This makes her not want to discuss it and deny anything to do with liking me. She doesn't want to show her feelings like a normal person and avoids talking to me or making any kind of contact. If I ask to hang out and she doesn't know if she's available she NEVER will get back to me.
What do you all think about this?
