Sexy_Rebel wrote:how long have you been dating?

Ahmed IV wrote:But you get the feeling Smexy that she herself dones't love you anymore...
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Alright Miss Fifi lol

SmexyGenius wrote:

Ahmed IV wrote:But you get the feeling Smexy that she herself dones't love you anymore...
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Alright Miss Fifi lol

Talk to her about your relationship, tell her that you feel that she doesn't love you anymore, and see what comes out of your talk. If you still feel the same way, your hunch may be right.

Btw it doesn't seem too much of a major arguement. You get millions of arguements in relationships . It's easy to overreact and think she doesn't love you anymore, when in fact your both just are mad at each other or misunderstand what the other person is saying. Usually one of you has to extend the hand of forgiveness (sadly this is almost always us men lol). I can't really tell you too much else unless I know what you disagreed on and stuff in detail...

fifi wrote:

SmexyGenius wrote:

Ahmed IV wrote:But you get the feeling Smexy that she herself dones't love you anymore...
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Alright Miss Fifi lol

Talk to her about your relationship, tell her that you feel that she doesn't love you anymore, and see what comes out of your talk. If you still feel the same way, your hunch may be right.

Btw it doesn't seem too much of a major arguement. You get millions of arguements in relationships . It's easy to overreact and think she doesn't love you anymore, when in fact your both just are mad at each other or misunderstand what the other person is saying. Usually one of you has to extend the hand of forgiveness (sadly this is almost always us men lol). I can't really tell you too much else unless I know what you disagreed on and stuff in detail...

Thats what i said but shorter and your confusing me when i read your stuff...WERE OVER..once again!

Ahmed IV wrote:Like a month and 2 weeks Steve...and I don't date.

I don't know Smexy ...I'll see then.....

Ahmed IV wrote:Like a month and 2 weeks Steve...and I don't date.

I don't know Smexy ...I'll see then.....

SmexyGenius wrote:

Ahmed IV wrote:Well what do you do? You loved a person very much, and basically drew your life map around/with that person...but it all ends.

So what do you do to cheer up a bit?

It's not a simple thing like losing a crush or w/e.

I know that time heals everything and you'll eventually forget the person. But I mean, what do you do in the mean time (the transtiion phase)?

Please give serious answers. Thanks.

And what would you tell a person who says "I loved once, and I felt the horrible pain of it (relationship ended), so I don't want to love anyone anymore or marry etc etc etc"

seems like u actually have love problems..i wonder w/ who..u can tell me i wont tell anyone. i promise

anyway theres a few transitions till u can get over the person ( keep in mind u will prob never be 100% over the person but ull get EXTREMELY close...espec if u find someone else)

First phase: grieve/cry/whatever u can to do let ur sadness out physically..work out till u drop... anything

second: get rid of anything that reminds u of that person, like anything they may have given u or whatever...

third: talk to friends who knew u both as a couple and understand. It helps letting out the sadness emotionally...

fourth: get involved in things that dont remind u of the person, and u enjoy (good way to lrn new things and it keeps ur mind off of the person)

i might have missed a bit but the rest is really just a waiting stage, as long as u keep ur mind of the person for a few/several months or so, the pain will almost vanish. then u can move on to someone else and start loving instead of hurting again...

ALSO VERY IMPORTANT: try not to see or get back with that person again...they would probably just hurt u again...

*note: music with a good beat always helps...not relaxing/music about love...that would just remind u of the person. rap is really good for this lol...

Talk to her about your relationship, tell her that you feel that she
doesn't love you anymore, and see what comes out of your talk. If you
still feel the same way, your hunch may be right.

Btw it doesn't seem too much of a major arguement. You get millions of arguements in relationships
. It's easy to overreact and think she doesn't love you anymore, when
in fact your both just are mad at each other or misunderstand what the
other person is saying. Usually one of you has to extend the hand of
forgiveness (sadly this is almost always us men lol). I can't really
tell you too much else unless I know what you disagreed on and stuff in
detail...

seems like u actually have love problems..i wonder w/ who..u can tell me i wont tell anyone. i promise

anyway
theres a few transitions till u can get over the person ( keep in mind
u will prob never be 100% over the person but ull get EXTREMELY
close...espec if u find someone else)

First phase: grieve/cry/whatever u can to do let ur sadness out physically..work out till u drop... anything

second: get rid of anything that reminds u of that person, like anything they may have given u or whatever...

third: talk to friends who knew u both as a couple and understand. It helps letting out the sadness emotionally...

fourth:
get involved in things that dont remind u of the person, and u enjoy
(good way to lrn new things and it keeps ur mind off of the person)

i
might have missed a bit but the rest is really just a waiting stage, as
long as u keep ur mind of the person for a few/several months or so,
the pain will almost vanish. then u can move on to someone else and
start loving instead of hurting again...

ALSO VERY IMPORTANT: try not to see or get back with that person again...they would probably just hurt u again...

*note:
music with a good beat always helps...not relaxing/music about
love...that would just remind u of the person. rap is really good for
this lol...