Sexy_Rebel wrote:if theres a spark dont rush into things, it might be she isn't ready to call you a boyfriend, just let her make her mind up, im sure you will soon know if your right and ready for each other. if one of you aren't ready then you dont want to push them, they could feel like they were forced into the whole thing.

some things just take time.

By "soon", what do you mean (about how long is soon)?

i dont know how long it is, if she is nice then she will let you know what she decides when she is ready, but if she is a player then she will let you wait for months.

it is a big thing though. and if she isn't ready to tell the world maybe there is a good reason for it... You gotta remember to respect her wishes even if they conflict with yours.

But Steve you contradicted yourself there. First you said that "it means that it may not be love" (or something close to that), now you are saying to wait for months.

not i am not telling you to wait for months, you said you loved each other. well the love is still there, im sure if you asked she would be able to tell you yes or no about telling the people you know, and if its a no then im sure she will have reasons she will probably share.

conversation is the key to a relationship, instead of asking us things like how long do i wait you should ask her something like "can you make your mind up by the end of the week?" or something else depending on how you interact with eachother...

there are a lot of details i dont know so i cant give you advice directly.

i said shes a player if she makes you wait for months, thats not a good thing, it would back up my it may not be love thing.

How about if there is no good reason besides "people will make fun of me" or "I dont know" or "Maybe later". Would these be good reasons?

^^^ then it ain't love man...

i am done here. I is not my place to talk about how valid their reasons are or what you mean to each other, i have given all the advice i am comfortable giving.

YAY, I agree with you all the wayyyyyy sexyrebel