Well, I think this is better off in the boys forum, but Ill post it here.

This topic was inspired by Smile

What do you think of this:

2 people love each other. Yet one of the people doesn't want to tell other people that they love each other and prefers to keep it a secret between him/her and the person that they love. The other person however is ready to tell other people that they love each other.

What does this mean?

P.S.: I admire Smile's courage, that's why I got inspired to write this topic

wait till da other person is ready to tell...
telling some one that u luv em is real hard man...

and smile is such a lovely lass

I don't like secret love

You didn't understand Marwa. The two people that love each other already told each other that they love each other. However, one person from the two doesnt want to tell other people (the world) that they love each other. Instead he/she wants to keep it a secret between him/her and the lover...understand?

^^^ oh.. emmm ok.
so what ya askin then? o.O

if your not ready to tell the world maybe it isn't love, surely if you love someone your not ashamed to have other people know.

^^^ agreed.

Lol Marwa.

Read what I wrote twice. Here's a third:

2 people love each other. They told EACH OTHER that they love each other. One person, from the 2 lovers, doesn't want to tell the world that he/she loves the person that he/she loves. The other person is willing to tell the wolrd that he loves his/her loved one.

Why is that and what does it mean?

^^^ emmmm i wouldn't know man... i ain't a love expert

OH, that's just simple. It just mean that the other person don't love that other person as much as that other one. He/she don't tell the world so that why he/she can choose some other else (more choices you know). That's really smart. If I was in that situation, I will be the one that won't tell the world too.

That's mean/bad IRezev

^^^ i think Eve gave ya da best answer man

Not at all. As people always say, never leave the forest just because of 1 tree

Yes, I agree with Steve.

^^ u mean Eve

Sexy_Rebel wrote:if your not ready to tell the world maybe it isn't love, surely if you love someone your not ashamed to have other people know.

What would you suggest to happen in such a situation then?

Steve beat me to it -_-

Answer this question Fang:

What would you suggest to happen in such a situation then?

Wait.

Wait for what?

Well then you should suck it up and stop caring about what other people think. If you keep your love private, then it's not right. The only reason I'd keep it private is cause my parents don't want me to date.

My parents would both have a conniption.

If it's not right then what should be done in such a situation flame? And no, I am not saying the two will date. I'm just talking about the two admitting to the world that they love each other.

if theres a spark dont rush into things, it might be she isn't ready to call you a boyfriend, just let her make her mind up, im sure you will soon know if your right and ready for each other. if one of you aren't ready then you dont want to push them, they could feel like they were forced into the whole thing.

some things just take time.

^^^^^^^^I agree with what steve has just said.
Maybe you should give her some time.