What I Said

Here goes my convo in PM's with that girl I've been complaining about a few times.
Her:Why wont you text me back..?..
Me:Huh? I haven't been recieving any texts...
Her:O.O what ?! Ive sent so many... Good morning. Good night . How are you.? Why wont you text me back ? Are you mad at me ? What did i do wrong ? I need a hug cause imma bout to have a breakdown . Will you come to my concert this thursday .
And i hear nothing back .... :'/
Me:You're having a concert Thursday?
Her:...yeah... It doesnt matter i guess..
Me:It does, what time and where? I'll try to be there.
I can't guarantee anything.
Her:...its okay... You dont have too... I know your busy ....
Me:I'm not that busy, it's just that life's getting really fustrating.
As I said, I'll see what I can do.
Her: thats the point i dont wanna bother you and make you more frustraited... :'/
i love you... Im sorry if this is frustraiting you... :./
Me:No it's not. Everybody has their problems, but to have one's problems reflect on your life and your outcome on others is to makes you not a better man, no, it makes you more dependent.
Us as humans need to learn that we have to sometimes conquer things on our own. Even if it is the roughest of times, we still have to dig our way through it.
Her:Its just i dont wanna be disapointed... I always am... None of my family is comming ... Just nevermind... Im sorry ... Forget it....
Me:No, you shouldn't be disappointed. Just becuase others doesn't come means nothing. What matter is making you content. Even if it's the worst of times, or you're just doing a concert, you're not doing it for the others, you're doing it for you.

Is that a fair and light hearted thing to say? Am I doing this right?
I just don't know anymore.
EDIT: I was lying to her at certain parts though.

I could tell that you like her. Otherwise, you wouldn't have spent the time to write all this. This was your sub-conscience.

No, it takes me 30 seconds to come up with something like this. You could ask me a basic yes-no question and I'd say something like this (irl).
I used to like her but now she just pisses me off.
I'm just trying to tell her that it's not my problem & if you want me to come, I may or may not come.

No point denying. This is based on my psychology findings. You wouldn't have mentioned this if you don't care.

I do care, but I don't like her as a person.

Then what do you like her as? An object?

She is just something that I will use to learn from, then leave it in the past.
She is a tool that I use to advance in life.

In which way will you use this...tool?

I will gather information I need from her. Which I've almost completed, I've just got to close her down forever and the process will be done.

What info?

That is private stuff that I cannot say because if I do then you all would think different off me.

bro story cool

That's a dickish move. Stop leading the girl on.