1. I do not get angry when verbally attacked.
2. I am comfortable with others' grief, even those in close relationship to me.
3. I get angry or fearful when physically threatened.
4. I am able to decide to love another and then do so.
5. I am comfortable with others' anger and hate.
6. I worry regularly in some circumstances.
7. At times and in some circumstances I feel shame.
8. My anger keeps coming back in certain situations or with specific people.
9. For some things I have done in the past, I feel guilty.
10. At times I feel degraded and humiliated.
11. Regularly I get anxious about some situations.
12. Sadness keeps recurring for me over specific issues.
13. Jealousy is sometimes a part of my life.
14. I get blue or depressed regularly.
15. In my life is stress that never ends.
16. I am comfortable hugging other adults of either sex.
17. I regularly allow my own wracking sobs and tears.
18. With a particular partner I am able to express all of the following: emotional love, physical love, words of love and lusty sexual love.
19. Once my sobs and tears have been released, I feel great.
20. I am comfortable saying the words "I love you" to men, women and children in a feeling way.