Well, like any other human, I have lost a couple of people in my lives.

*I lost a good friend of mines

In Jr. HS I had this really, really, good Pakastani friend. And I could tell that he wanted to be a good Muslim. But literally all of a sudden in 8th grade he started hanging out with some retards in the class...later on...he is now in my HS and he doesn't hang out with the smartest kids around and now during junior year (this year)...today outside my classroom, for example, he was cutting his class and kissing this girl (astagferallah)...he has been doing this for a month now.

I sometimes think...why did such a person change like that? Subhanallah. I was a guest in his house many times. His family seemed to know Islam well. And we were best friends. How could a person change in such extreme ways like that?

*I lost a loved one

My famous story lol. Yeah, pretty much everything was honey if not better, then all of a sudden (Till this minute in time I still do not know the exact reason why...I don't believe that one argument could have done it)....it disappears. Once again, I think: WHY do people change in such extreme ways in so so little time?? Sigh...

*A possible brother

Well if I a not mistaken I remember that my mother had a miscarriage...that could have been possibly been my only brother ...I guess my sisters will do lol.

Did I really deserve all these losses? Allahu A3lam.

That's all I remember atm.

Whom did you guys lose?

i lost many friend. respect for humanity. comfort at home. will to continue. grand parents. pets. i have lost childhood memories with my father because of work. i have lost many more. i have lost all that i was so i am nothing, I am nothing so i am.

Also I lost 2 grandmothers and a grandfather.

That and the miscarriage...I obviously had nothing to do with...

But as for my first 2 losses...if you were in my place wold you have isolated yourself from the world and stopped dealing with people? I know you guys will say "Walk and forget"...but you guys don't really know how hard it to forgets stuff like that especially when you have known the people for sooo long...I have known my friends for 2 years. 3 years passed...and still whenever I randomly see him in the hallway or w/e at school I still get this feeling of tension...

If there is one thing I dare say I learned...it would be that...enjoy every moment of joy you experience...you don't know when it'll end...it could end the next hour.

Very sorry to hear your story! I lost my pomeranian. He been with me for 13 years since I came to the USA. I really miss him

What's a "pomeranian"?

This is my Pomeranian. I love him more than anyone else in the world

Ahmed, it's called hormones. I might be the one to cut class to make out with a girl someday
I'm not a bad kid, but ya know, hormones can kinda overpower your mind.

No man. There is something called values and believes.
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Aww, sorry to know that IR...but I think the loss of humans is much worst.

Sultan Ahmed IV wrote:No man. There is something called values and believes.
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Aww, sorry to know that IR...but I think the loss of humans is much worst.

you only think that because you dont grow attached to animals, personally the loss of my dog would be mortifying!

Loss of human friend or dog is worst?

Sultan Ahmed IV wrote:Loss of human friend or dog is worst?

depends on the person, there are many people which if they died i would not shed a tear, yet i would weep for days for my dog.

I said: A Best friend.

Sultan Ahmed IV wrote:I said: A Best friend.

again, there are many i would not weep for. my heart is iron and my soul steel. only a few of my closest friends and family i would mourn, and even a few "best friends" i would just learn to say goodbye

Friends come and go thats why i dont have much expectation from them and try not to hang out as much as i do..
I lost my brother too my mother also had a miscarriage now he would be 16 and i really wanted a brother..
Naa love is not something i really want to go through it just seems a waist of time right now..most people dont understand how fragile a persons feelings are..so i dont see whats the point if there not going to care..
But lifes a pain in the butt..but whatever it all happens for a reason..like if my brother was here i would have never met any of you guys..
When did your mum have the miscarriage?