Let me put the story in a nutshell.

Girl- friends for 3 years

Asked out, said yes.

1st week was great, held hands and cuddled. She didn't like public affection so I lived with that. Can't say I enjoy it much either.

Dated for three weeks, then when I'm trying to solve a problem with ehr not intiiating anything, she finally tells me why she's been avoiding me since week 2-3. She apparently does not have the time and did not want to go out with me in the first place. Crap excuse.

Okay so I am extremelly pissed and we argue for several weeks over aim because she feels uncomfortable talking to me in person. I'm pissed because I got led on, and I've never had a relationship before, and I only got a taste. I was not a bad BF, I honestly couldn't of been a better BF.

She thinks she did nothing wrong, socially inept *****.

Right now we don't talk in real life. We smile at each other in the hallways but I do it just to keep the peace, since she refuses to discuss the matter.

The only thing she said to me today was...."hahaha", laughing at a joke a friend said about me, all in good fun but do you call that friendship if she doesn't even say hello?

She is an extremelly shy girl, but to the extent that she cannot communicate.....

I personaly think that she is in denial that she likes me.

I asked if she ever imagined holding my hand again. It was her first relationship too.

Now, a sane person who calls their BF "perfect" would I don't know, think about them a little?

She responded with "Honestly, I don't really think about it". Honestly I think that's a lie, as I have said, we have only spoken on aim. I cannot see her face and see if she's pulling my leg yet again.

The problem with her liking me now. She can't ask me out, because she ended it on cold grounds. This makes her not want to discuss it and deny anything to do with liking me. She doesn't want to show her feelings like a normal person and avoids talking to me or making any kind of contact. If I ask to hang out and she doesn't know if she's available she NEVER will get back to me.

What do you all think about this?

Two words: move on!

Haha, you're cruel Hassan.

Anyways, just wait until both of you cool off, might take a month or so though. Then approach her

Wow another sob story

bawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww grow up ¬_¬

Love is like the dragonfly's wing. When it happy, it stay. When it not, it flying away...

Pfft this forum is useful

Thanks.,..we needed these kinds of compliments (you are not kidding, right?)

I doubt it

Lol, life won't end.

Still, bored out of my mind again

do you like reading? just read it off!

Why dont you just say sorry?

preid1220 wrote:Why dont you just say sorry?

Do you want to?

Why would I say sorry?

to break the ice

is that what you want (again)?

I want her to feel bad, she ****** it up

More or less I want her to acknowledge my existence to an extent.....saying hello or something.

I've tried getting us back to friendship, but it's a one way war that she's not helping in.

so why waste your time on her?

I already have, I kinda just wanted an open discussion on the matter or something

Theory wrote:I already have, I kinda just wanted an open discussion on the matter or something

If you listen to me, I would say just move on....that's your best bet!