What to do?

I'd put this into advice but I want it to be about the issue as well as my circumstances.

Ok, so someone in my family who used togo to church and uth and everything else has all in one week

-started smoking
-left the church
-started doing drugs
-dumped his girl friend by text
-turned into a masive jerk
-started going out at night and just rocking up home when he feels like it
-and drinking massively

Now not going to church isn't really a big huge thing but he other all adding up are.

Now more info: He lives at home with his mum and no one else, his mum can't do anything, he is bigger than her and has flashes of temper, his dad dooesn't give a crap quite frankly (does not care about him at all or even talk to him) a lives ages away. And is 14!


So thoughts?

And should I say anything?

To adults?

14?!?
in this country he couldn't smoke or drink.
what times is he coming home at?

i think you should talk to him, there's no way anyone would just completely change like that without some reason, but id be friendly if possible, spend more time with him and i wouldnt ask him whats wrong.

is he just taking weed?

hmm at the moment I think.

Oh and I have talked to him! And coming home any hours at night.

yeah but when your 14, midnight is late, when your 20... it doesnt really matter when you get home as long as you don't wake anyone

have an intervention and hide all the drugs and alcohol in some hole in the ground or just throw it out

that would just make him hide more things from you

i sugest you have him talk to a theripist. just this year the person who lives on the same block as me died from a drug overdose. he was a very simeler case. his friends may be the problem, tailing him to see where he goes might give you some insight to whats going on but is probobly best to avoid

Hmm nah I do know whats going on, he had an ear infection that needed surgery, if not it had the possibility of death so it was meant to be last month but the government cancelled it so now he just doesn't value life any more!

He used to be so mature and just one of the worlds greatest guys!
But now his in with the wrong crowd and what not its a shame!

i can only suggest you be friendly with him, you dont want to alienate him

Follow him and track down the drug dealer, where he lives and goes and then call the Military Police on him.

make his last moments in the world of light good ones

jj16802 wrote:Follow him and track down the dealer, where he lives and goes and then call the Military Police on him.

"Military"-do you need to say that in every post? I think "police" would be just fine

yeah but you gotta be careful you don't make anything worse

I think that finding out the leader istoo dangerous for a little like Denz, I'm serious

I already know who it is...

Ok...then what are you waiting for? That man (drug dealer) has probably destroyed many families...can't you anonymously call the cops so they arrest him?

+1 ahmed

get that guy off your streets and watch the town/city get a bit better

Well, all the good ones are already said. I would just stress that it is really important to keep in touch with the person, and try to talk him out of this possible addiction.

I would be closely watching this topic, since personally, I really want this fixed. Good Luck.