I can't believe I envy...

Excuse my arrogance, but it's just to make my point.

-I have better grades than him.
-I'll go to a better Uni than him.
-I will probably get a better job than him (according to what he tells me)

But I still envy him. He is relaxed. He's simple...I don't mean it in a negative way...I mean he isn't complicated (complex). And he told me that by the end of last year he will write his book with the girl that he loves*. (He'll do the wedding later). And yeah...he's happy.

Am I right in envying him (I don't mean wish him bad, but wish I was the same)?

*That's how you say it in Arabic. He told me it in Urdu. It's basically when an Imam comes and he marries off a couple. This isn't the wedding though.

always thinking about girls .. what did i tell u

Yep. No matter how much better than he is you may be in any area or life, he's happy with his life. You aren't. And after all, aren't jobs and a good education just to pursue happiness?

@Sayf:Where did I think about girls? Why did you just pay attention to that part? And I'm actually talking about something decent like him marrying and not just meeting random girls
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@Flame: I didn't say I hate my life either. I'm just "w/e" about it...I thought jobs were for money?

You don't need to hate it to envy someone who loves theirs.

And jobs = money which people strive after because they think they'll be happy with it.

I don't even know if Smexy likes his life. But I do...I like the relaxation...worry free...happiness of it.

because you over think everyhting!!

No...not really that...and tbh I don't over think much.

ok dont lie even when your out yyou still think about school and the future?

The grass is always greener on the other side.

As I think it was Plato who once said, "Be kind for everyone is facing a great battle."

I don't think about school. But if I get a low grade or something...then yeah...I do think of that test...it's in my nature.

I don't think much anymore about the future...I used to...but not much anymore...the futurist I think of now is what college Ill go to...and that's not really that far off in the future.
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@Flame: What's that supposed to mean for me?

It's supposed to mean that you're only looking at the things you like in Smexy. You don't know the half of how he lives life.

Well that's 100% true. But I'm just talking about those aspects.

Why did I make this stupid topic...now I'm getting sad...darn...

Ahmed you long for what you dont have, freedom. your work and studies have chained you to the earth, so that no mater how successful you get you will never be free, simply a frog in a well, gazing into the sky.

But Im free to do what I want. Tell me what I can't do?

Vegito wrote:But Im free to do what I want. Tell me what I can't do?

relax and not worry about getting the perfect uni or what to do on the next test.

I don't care about going to the perfect Uni. The test thing I can't help myself lol...but I somehow feel my life isn't complete...